Refined Flexiwire Full Cup Bra - Cashmere
Soft where it counts, strong where it has to be: our most-loved bra, reimagined for all women.
What customers say
“I literally feel like im not even wearing a bra! So soft and gives the perfect shape”
Find My Size
Where are you in your journey?
This shapes your sizing recommendation.
Which trimester are you in?
This helps us account for how much your body is still likely to change.
What is your current bra size?
Even if it doesn't fit quite right — we'll use this as our starting point.
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Bra fitting is part science, part feel — and when your body is changing (pregnancy, postpartum, post-nursing) it can be tricky to figure out alone. Send us a few details and one of our Fit Specialists will email you back with a personalised size recommendation. It's free, no pressure to buy.
How does the band fit?
Honest answers give us the most accurate size.
How does the cup fit?
No gaps, no spillage — you know what we mean.
Your recommended size
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BRA FEATURES
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Flexible Underwire
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Full Coverage
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Lift and Shape
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Smooth Back
stage guide
Refined is Hotmilk's flexiwire full cup lace bra, designed for high support, natural lift and a smooth, secure fit from C to H cup. Designed from the same fit expertise as our best-selling bras, it has soft lace over a smooth microfibre base, full coverage cups and Hotmilk Flexiwire support. Less rigid than traditional underwire, Flexiwire gives supportive lift with a more flexible, comfortable feel. Carefully shaped cups help fill the upper bust, while underarm and back-smoothing panels help create a smooth line under clothing. Adjustable straps and a racerback option let you customise the fit.
Key Benefits
- Support Level: High. Flexible Flexiwire support with structured shaping
- Flexiwire Support: Less rigid than traditional underwire, giving you supportive lift with a more flexible, comfortable feel
- Upper-Cup Shaping: Carefully shaped cups help fill the upper bust for a smoother, more secure fit
- Smoothing: Underarm and back-smoothing panels help create a sleek line around the bra and under clothing
- Cup Style: Full coverage, fixed cups (no nursing clips) with centring side panel, unpadded soft cups with light mesh lining
- Sizes: Bands 8, 10, 12, 14, 16, 18 | Cups C, D, DD, E, F, FF, G, GG, H
- Colour: Cashmere. A whisper-soft blush-beige with delicate rosy undertones, warm, gentle and luminously soft
- Straps: Partially adjustable with racerback option | Narrow 12mm strap width | Wider 18mm on larger sizes from 8FF/10F/12E/14DD/16D
- Band: 4-hook back closure | +5cm band extension | Standard 3 row height | Smooth microfibre with powermesh lining at the back
- Fabric: GRS Certified recycled polyamide lace, polyamide, polyester, elastane. Soft lace over a smooth microfibre base
- Certification: Oeko-Tex Standard 100 certified fabrics and trims
Who is this bra for?
For women who want real lift and support with the beauty of lace, all day. Ideal for women with a large bust, or anyone who wants high support with a flexible, comfortable underwire for work, special occasions and everyday wear. Looking for a bra for pregnancy or breastfeeding? Shop our nursing bras.
Complete the set
Complete the look with matching The Classic Bikini Brief or The Classic G-String.
Eco
Refined lace is made from GRS certified recycled polyamide, with the same softness, durability and beauty as virgin lace, reclaimed from textile waste.
FREE shipping applies to all orders throughout Australia over $120.
Australian Returns
Returns are complimentary with Checkout+ and accepted within 30 days of delivery.
Added Checkout+ at checkout? You're all sorted, your return label is on us. Simply lodge your return and choose a full refund, store credit, or exchange for another item, free of charge.
Skipped Checkout+? No problem at all, just purchase your return label, then choose a full refund, store credit, or exchange for another item, with no additional fees or restocking charges.
Please see our dedicated Returns and Exchanges page for full details.
As a team of moms, we understand the importance of protecting the planet for future generations. We are committed to reducing our impact on the earth by creating beautiful products that are healthier for you, your family, and our environment. All Hotmilk garments are ethically sourced and go through rigorous testing to ensure the fabrics and hardware are safe and free from harmful chemicals.
Free shipping on orders over $120
Quick and easy 30-day returns
Why we built Refined
- Bodies that need serious structured support but hate how rigid underwires feel
- Full cup bras that look heavy and clinical against your skin
- Soft tissue that standard underwired bras weren't built to accommodate
- Giving up on beautiful lingerie that actually comes in your siz
- Flexiwire moves with your body — structured support without the rigid frame
- Luxurious recycled lace and smooth microfibre base elevated lingerie, not a functional bra
- Underarm and back smoothing panel combined with powermesh back — keeps soft tissue polished and in place
- Racerback option and gold hardware C to H cup — serious support in a seriously beautiful package
Worn, Loved & Shared
Not all bras are created equal
| Refined | Other brands | |
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| Flexiwire that moves with your body | ||
| Underarm and back smoothing panels — soft tissue friendly | ||
| Certified recycled lace | ||
| Racerback option for added support | ||
| Powermesh back smoothing | ||
| Ethically sourced & tested for harmful chemicals |
Customers praised this full cup bra for "amazing quality" and exceptional support, particularly for larger cup sizes with smaller bands. The flexiwire accommodates hormonal fluctuations, while the band provides a "smoothing look" and feels comfortable. Shoppers appreciated the fit and construction quality, noting it's ideal post-nursing.
- Beautiful soft bra. Amazing quality, the band feels nice and gives a smoothing look.
- The support above everything else is what I missed! The girls aren't going anywhere.
- The flexiwire is perfect for my fluctuating hormones that can change me 1 to 2 cup sizes.
Stop looking at the reviews and just do it girl!! Get that upgrade! Treat your self!
This bra is worth it in so many ways!! She fits beautifully, she’s comfortable and you can wear her allllllll day!!
Thank you for your lovely review Kenzie, Refined looks amazing on you! x
Beautiful soft bra. Amazing quality, just like the nursing bras. The band feels nice on your body and gives a smoothing look. A great bra as I am finishing my nursing journey after 8 years and 4 kids.
Thank you for your lovely review Megan, I am so glad to hear that you are happy with your Refined bra xx
I literally feel like im not even wearing a bra that's how comfortable they are! So soft and give the perfect shape, love how they are full coverage too!
Thank you for your review Sarah, I am so pleased to hear that you love your Refined bra! xx
Finally, bra that fits my no longer full bust! Cups are the perfect width with no gaping at the top and it is really pretty. Next, can you make a plainer version without moulded cups?
Just lovely the best bra I have ever had
I’ve been so excited to try this new evolve range as I come to end of my breastfeeding journey and it did not disappoint! The fit is perfect, it’s beautiful and SO comfy. Can’t wait to stock up on more!
Thank you so much for taking the time to review our Refined Flexiwire Full Cup Bra! We are thrilled to hear that it exceeded your expectations and provided the perfect fit and comfort you were looking for. We hope you continue to enjoy our evolve range and we look forward to helping you stock up on more. Have a great day!
Since ending my breast feeding journey 5 years ago I have not to this day found another bra for large cups but small back that matches the fit, support and quality of hotmilk. I was so excited when they finally released the evolve range and brought two as soon as I could! The support above everything else is what I missed! The girls aren't going anywhere in this thing. The flexiwire is perfect for my fluxuating hormones that can change me 1 to 2 cup sizes over my cycle. The band holds its shape and feels good on the skin. I look forward to more colours, and styles (like a smooth tshirt bra) for the G+ cup community. Thank you HotMilk for taking the time to make these bras it was worth the wait!
Hi Amy,
What an amazing review - thank you!! We are so happy about bringing the Evolve range to our lovely mamas that have ended their breastfeeding journey and I am so pleased to hear that you love it as much as we do!! xx
Common Questions about Refined Flexiwire Bra
Everything you need to know about Flexiwire fit, and finding your size
Start with your current measurements or a bra that currently fits.
Refined is designed with a fuller cup shape — if you're not as full on top, size down a cup
If you have softer underarm or back skin, consider sister sizing — up a band, down a cup to ensure nothing digs in
Contact our fit team for help with your size. Don't forget to take our Fit quiz.
Yes — Refined uses the same Flexiwire technology from our nursing range: a flexible low-gauge wire that bends with your body rather than sitting in a fixed position. It's significantly more comfortable against post-nursing tissue than standard rigid underwire. The underarm smoothing panel also ensures no digging where tissue is soft or sensitive.
For most everyday tops, yes. The lace sits on the upper cup, while the lower cup — the part against the fitted line of your top — is smooth microfibre designed to lie flat.
Under very fine or sheer fabrics, you may see a subtle hint of the lace edge. If full invisibility is what you need, Effortless Sculpt is our completely seamless option.
We offer 30-day returns on unworn bras with tags attached. We also have Refunds or store credit available.
Our fit team can recommend the right size before you order.
