My Necessity FlexFit Nursing Bra - Twilight
Our #1 bestselling nursing bra — wireless, seamless, and adapts 2–3 cup sizes from pregnancy to hospital to postpartum. All in one bra.
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Where are you in your journey?
This shapes your sizing recommendation.
Which trimester are you in?
This helps us account for how much your body is still likely to change.
What is your current bra size?
Even if it doesn't fit quite right — we'll use this as our starting point.
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Bra fitting is part science, part feel — and when your body is changing (pregnancy, postpartum, post-nursing) it can be tricky to figure out alone. Send us a few details and one of our Fit Specialists will email you back with a personalised size recommendation. It's free, no pressure to buy.
How does the band fit?
Honest answers give us the most accurate size.
How does the cup fit?
No gaps, no spillage — you know what we mean.
Your recommended size
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BRA FEATURES
Easy sizing Flexfit
Wireless comfort
Perfect for sleep
Wearable pump friendly
stage guide
LIMITED EDITION
The comfortable nursing bra every mama needs. Crafted from ultra-soft recycled nylon, My Necessity is a seamless, wirefree maternity and nursing bra designed to move with your changing body from pregnancy through postpartum. With flexible sizing that expands up to four cup sizes, this bra offers gentle support and unmatched softness—perfect for hospital stays, overnight wear, and everyday comfort. Experience the freedom of a wirefree nursing bra that’s so comfortable, you’ll forget you’re even wearing it.
Size Guide (Approximate Band Fit):
S = 8–10 A-E | M = 12 A-E| L = 14 A-E | XL = 16 A-E | XXL = 18 A-E
Designed for smaller busts – for fuller cup support, try My Necessity Busty.
- Support Level: Light – soft, stretchy comfort for day and night
- Cup Style: Full coverage, removable contour cups
- Straps & Closure: Half-adjustable straps | 6-hook back closure
- Padding Type: Removable padded cups for smooth shaping
- Nursing Clips: One-handed drop-down cups for easy breastfeeding
- Nursing Access: Side-sling for skin-to-skin contact
- Sizes Available: S-XXL suits A to E cup
- Colour: Twilight
- Care Instructions: Cold Wash - because hard-working bras deserve care too.
- Fabric: Recycled nylon, elastane, micropolyester
FREE shipping applies to all orders throughout Australia over $95.
We are also pleased to offer FREE returns on store credits. Or you can process a refund for a small fee.
Please see our dedicated Returns and Exchanges page for full details.
As a team of moms, we understand the importance of protecting the planet for future generations. We are committed to reducing our impact on the earth by creating beautiful products that are healthier for you, your family, and our environment. All Hotmilk garments are ethically sourced and go through rigorous testing to ensure the fabrics and hardware are safe and free from harmful chemicals.
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Why we built My Necessity
- Bras that can't keep up with a changing body
- Nursing bras that look and feel clinical
- Having to choose between support and comfort
- Giving up sleep just to take off an uncomfortable bra
- FlexFit cups grow with you, accommodating up to 2–3 cup sizes as your body changes
- Seamless, second-skin stretch so it disappears the moment you put it on
- Wirefree construction with a side sling for easy nursing access, day or night
- Six hook-and-eye closure grows with you — plus 7cm band extension as you need it
Worn, Loved & Shared
Not all nursing bras are created equal
| My Necessity | Other brands | |
|---|---|---|
| FlexFit cups — flex up to 2–3 cup sizes | ||
| Seamless, second-skin stretch | ||
| Wirefree with side sling nursing access | ||
| 6-hook band with +7cm extension | ||
| Wearable pump friendly | ||
| Certified recycled, Oeko-Tex safe fabric | ||
| Designed for sleep, hospital bag & everyday |
Common Questions about My Necessity Bra
Everything you need to know about seamless FlexFit sizing, Regular vs Busty fit, and hospital bag use
The Necessity is sized S–XXL, so start with your usual clothing size for the band. For the cup, choose from two options: Regular (A–DD) or Busty (E–G). Select your current cup size — the fabric stretches 2–3 cup sizes to accommodate your changing shape as your milk comes in. If you're between sizes, we recommend sizing up.
Yes — it's one of our top hospital bag recommendations. Here's why:
- Seamless construction — no pressure points from day one
- FlexFit sizing removes the guesswork of your exact postpartum size
- Side-sling clip is intuitive even in the first days
Soft enough to wear overnight from the first night in hospital
Yes — My Necessity is our most-recommended sleep style:
- Seamless, no pressure points overnight
- Wirefree throughout
- 6-hook closure can be fastened loosely for overnight comfort
- Available in Regular (A–DD) and Busty (E–G)
- Regular — A–DD cup, standard cup depth
- Busty — E–G cup, extra internal support panel for a fuller bust
Both use the same seamless FlexFit recycled nylon — choose based on your cup range. Still unsure? Chat with our fit team
My Necessity is pretty forgiving so we get far less returns on this style due to how adaptable it is. Choose your regular size.
Between sizes? Size up for comfort and room for a breast pad
6-hook closure extends +8cm for postpartum adjustment
Contact our fit team for help with your size. Don't forget to take our Fit quiz.
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our story
Born from a founder who refused to settle
Twenty years ago, Lisa Ebbing refused to wear nursing bras that made her feel invisible, just because she was becoming a mother. That refusal sparked a revolution. Today, Hotmilk has sold over 2.5 million maternity and nursing bras and briefs worldwide.
